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You're single, why?

- NO SUITOR/S.. HEHE.. LESS STRESS.. AND AS OF NOW I AM NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE.. I'LL JUST LET LOVE COMES.. :))

When was the last time you talked to your bf/gf?

- ERR... DANG! I'M SINGLE

Have you ever kissed anyone who's name started with a J, K, P, or T?

- YES.. :)) ALL OF THE GIVEN  LETTERS: GIRLFRIENDS :)).. OPPOSITE: "J"

Do you prefer warm or cold weather?

- COLD. hmmmm??? :D .. excused to hug someone.. haha

How much money do you have on your wallet?

- 500pesos.. and coins..  haha.. POOR me!!!

Is there someone on your mind that shouldn't be?

- yes.. :(( him.. yahh.. him.. errr

Where will you be in an hour?

- I SHOULD BE STUDYING RIGHT NOW.. AND IN THE NEXT HOUR.. BUT I'M  HERE IN FRONT OF MY COMPUTER.. HAHA.. DANG!! JUST LET ME DO THIS OK??? I'VE BEEN AWAY FROM THE NET THIS PAST FEW DAYS.. :p

What were you doing at 12 am?

- AARON'S CRIB.. :)) CHILL WITH HIGH SCHOOL FRIENDS :)) MISS THEM SOOOOOOOO...

Are you wearing anything you borrowed from someone?

- NOPE..

Will you ever KISS♥ the last person you kissed again?

- OF COURSE.. :)) HEHE..

Who was it?

- LET ME CLARIFY.. HE IS THE ONE WHO KISSED ME.. SO "I WANT  HIM TO KISS ME AGAIN"  HAHAHAHA.. :p

What is the last reason you cried?

- I PITY A FRIEND :(

Where is your cell phone?

- in the living room.. charging..

Who are you texting?

- none.
Where did you sleep last night?

- aaron's room :) with friends

What time did you go to sleep last night?

- 5am?? or 6am?? hehe

What/who woke you up today?

- AARON

Do you secretly like anyone?

- I GUESS.. :)

When was the last time someone yelled at you?

- LAST NIGHT.. HEHE

Have you ever been given an engagement ring?

- NO

When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?

- THIS MORNING.. :)

Have you done anything you regret in 2008 so far?

- SO FAR.. SO MANY..

Where is your best friend?

- PROBABLY AT HOME?? HEHE

Who was the last person to make you laugh?

- FRIENDS :D.. AARON.RAM.MIA.MAE.AARON.SLY AND IVAN HAHA..

Anything annoying you right now?

- NOTHING..

Is there any emotion you're trying to avoid right now?

- NONE.. I'M HAPPY :)

hahaha...

Do people make fun about your nationality?

- NO

You are sensitive and caring by nature, although you present a tough exterior to the world. You soon learn ways to protect your feelings, which run very deep and tender. As a lover you seek security and fidelity, and, although you are not above a few flirtatious peccadillos of your own, you can be deeply wounded if the one you care for betrays your trust (which is never given lightly). Cancer is poetic and romantic, but also practical in matters to do with the home and raising a family.

A good communicator, your deep sensitivity can present you with valuable and illuminating intuitions, especially regarding those you care for. This said, sensitive Cancerians under pressure can retreat within themselves and allow repressedemotions to bottle up until they either explode with devastating force, or implode catastrophically, causing general meltdown.

Cancer, a feminine (yin) sign, is ruled by the Moon. So in relationships, Cancer, the most nurturesome sign of the zodiac, seeks a secure nest, or bolthole. The fluctuating Moon can reflect a moodiness in your nature that is not always understood nor appreciated by others.

Cancerians can be difficult to understand and sometimes allow irrational emotions to rule their otherwise sensible heads. For this reason the Cancerian soul seeks to build strong walls around home and loved ones, so tender feelings may express themselves in an environment which is stable and secure.

Cancer is a cardinal sign, so you are best involved with someone who understands creativity and will accept you for what you are, moods and all. Because your emotions are so powerful, you seek a partner who is stable and responsive, while at the same time understanding your intermittent need for solitude, alternating with a gregarious desire for companionship and stimulation.

Cancer is protective, even possessive and can be a jealous lover, though more from insecurity than simple desire to dominate. Those who seek a loving, protective partner, who has wonderful bouts of creativity interspersed with dreamy romanticism, yet peppered with practicality need look no further than Cancer.

SCORPIO A Match Made In Heaven

Scorpio and Cancer are both motivated by emotion and intuition, and the bond they share will be very strong. Scorpio throws his/her heart and soul into a relationship and expects his/her mate to be true, and will keep a jealous eye open for any wrong doing; if Scorpio is the man in this match he will be an excellent provider.

Fortunately for the relationship, Cancer's beliefs are a mirror of Scorpio's, and Cancer will not give any reason for the Scorpion jealousy to blossom. Scorpio works hard, either at home or on a job, and his/her home is the place reserved for peace and quiet, which is necessary to unwind from all of the daily tensions. If the Scorpio's emotional needs are met and he/she is comfortable with the trust he/she will put in Cancer, then you can expect Scorpio not to look at any other member of the opposite sex.

Cancer's natural concern for other people may somehow lead Scorpio to think that they are using Cancer's good nature and disposition, secretly these thoughts will come from a touch of jealousy of Cancer's interest in someone besides him/her. Cancer has great respect for Scorpio, and even though Cancer is of a slightly critical nature, Cancer will learn to phrase these criticisms without wounding Scorpio's pride.

Cancer can be possessed completely by Scorpio in sexual relations, and be inspired to greater response than he/she can with any other sign. Cancer is able to express her/himself more with Scorpio, thus widening Cancer's horizons of passion. You have to say this is a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Scorpio? As a sensitive, emotional partner who will make you feel more desirable than ever. But so much passion sometimes sends you scurrying back into your shell.

How does your Scorpio partner see you? As someone with whom to share all those sentimental dreams; but doesn't want to feel you're prying into their past too much.

How to make things better: Learn to understand each other's need for quiet moments alone from time to time. Be generous with your love, but never too possessive.

LEO - Not A Match Made In Heaven

Leo will have a lot of trouble breaking through the protective shell of the Cancerian, because the crab likes to hide his/her feelings inside, and shows the world a very different image of being thicker-skinned than they really are. Eventually, Leo will break through, and then he or she will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.

Cancer is initially attracted to Leos regal bearing and fun loving manner, but shortly Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another, and the fiery ardor of Leo will cause Cancer to feel that real love cannot last with such intensity... and begins to doubt Leo's heartfelt words of love. Being moody and easily hurt by almost everything that is said will cause Cancer to sulk for daysm and this will not go over very big with Leo, who has no time for someone who cannot keep up with him/her.

The quiet outer facade of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Leo, and Cancer will do well to try to be everything that Leo expects in a mate. Cancer can provide, totally by instinct, the kind of home Leo wants and expects, and this alone can heal many wounds. Leos occasional, wildly extravagant moods will aggravate the economical values of Cancer. Cancer worries about the future and the future is the furthermost thing from Leo's mind and only amuses him/her.

Both Leo and Cancer feel they should be the 'boss' , and the home loving, nurturing, Cancer will spend more time sulking than talking, unless he or she is allowed to make most of the decisions. This situation could not be tolerated by Leo, who must be in the limelight, or be gone. Sexually, Leo's demands can get excessive as their appetites vary considerably. With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly, this could be a shaky union at best, but with a more considerate and giving attitude on the part of Leo, and the positive type of Cancerian, it can be made to work. Otherwise, this is not a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Leo? As a strong supportive partner who will make you feel totally secure. But you're not so keen on being bossed around.

How does your Leo partner see you? As someone to give them all the love they crave for, but their love has to be strong enough to enable them to enjoy your moody side too.

How to make things better: Accomplish something for yourself rather than depending too much on your partner all the time.

>i see.. that's why it didn't worked :)

CANCER - Not A Match Made In Heaven

Both of these individuals have a good memory, and the cause of their disagreements keep coming up time after time, as neither is of a forgiving and forgetting nature. The both of them, being romantics with domestic and sensitive characteristics, should find this to be a good basis for a happy relationship. The trouble in this case is that of excessive sensitivity which can lead them into trouble.

They both take words and actions to be literal truths, and that can mean some consistent pain and unrest for them. They tend to see themselves as martyrs, vastly giving individuals, and when one does not see this in the other, then the reaction is shock. They will waste a lot of time together, better spent on other things, in the middle of petty bickering and dredging up the past mistakes of the other.

If they can act and react in a more positive, mature manner, they will see just how much they really have together to be grateful for. After their arguments they are quick to reconcile. Both partners are so complex and emotional, they will have a hard time viewing life with a more realistic eye, and consequentially, their life together never quite lives up to the expectations of the other.

The intricate feelings of Cancer with Cancer could cause trouble sexually, because their desires rarely coincide with the other's feelings. Each will expect the other to adapt, and this can bring on more trouble. Not a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Cancer? It's like looking at your own reflection in the moonlit water - so you have to be truly happy with what you see! But who could know you better?

How does your Cancer partner see you? Unless their personal horoscope gives them totally different characteristics, your Cancer partner will see and feel the same way as you, and know all about those high and low tides, too!

How to make things better: Don't give each other a hard time when the Full Moon comes along. But remember to remove those protective shells more often and enjoy being in perfect harmony.

GEMINI - Not A Match Made In Heaven

Gemini's attraction to Cancer in the beginning could have been his/her stability and peace loving nature combined with domestic tendencies. The compliments that Cancer would regularly give is an ego booster to Gemini. Gemini also likes the way Cancer responds to his/her sense of humor and fun. If everything goes well, Gemini will learn from Cancer to be more sensitive to other peoples feelings, and Cancer will adopt the Gemini way of speedy action.

Cancer is the home-loving type and will be content to stay there and lock the rest of the world outside, but Gemini would soon become restless and angry over this, as he/she is very sociable and likes to be around other people; having no wish to feel as if they are a prisoner in their own home...life would quickly become unbearable to Gemini.

Cancer's actions are always dictated by his/her feelings, no matter what level of intelligence they are. There would be much bickering due to the clash in personalities of these two, and this would not be a situation either one would want to remain in for long.

Cancer depends on the feelings of the moment for sexual arousal and these feelings can go deep, while Geminis' desires are dictated by the mind. This alone would create much confusion in the bedroom, as the same things cannot be expected to sexually stimulate them both. Frustration in this area is inevitable. This is not a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Gemini? As someone whose flighty ways could make you feel much too insecure. You realize you'd have to become a lot more independent to make this work.

How does your Gemini partner see you? As a tender loving partner, but one who could try to cramp their style just a little too much. Gemini always needs to feel inwardly free.

How to make things better: Learn to have more faith in the people you care for. They're not going to abandon you just because they need their own space too.

 

>i see..

ARIES - Love Can Make It Work

The Arian may have a lot of trouble trying to break through the protective shell of the Cancerian, the crab likes to hide his or her feelings inside and project to the world a very different image of being thicker skinned than they really are. Eventually, the Arian will break through, and then he or she will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.

Cancer is initially attracted to Aries by the strong Arian personality, but before long, Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another, and the fiery love of the Arian can cause Cancer to wonder just how long real love can last with such intensity - and begins to doubt how long the Arian's heartfelt declaration of love will endure. Being moody and easily hurt, to the point where he or she may pout for days, does not sit well with the direct and energetic Aries, who thrives on activity and new beginnings.

The quiet outer facade of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Aries - as being a go-getter can wear on the nerves, and they like to have a quiet place to recover in peace. Cancer is a homebody and wants a big family. The Arian may not be ready for that for a few years to come, in which case, Cancer will soon lose interest in sex, as secretly, Cancer feels that sex is for procreation. This attitude will quickly drive Aries into the divorce court or someone elses' arms.

The energetic, sociable, and forward-looking Aries will not get along well with the home loving, protective, nurturing Cancer, who likes to be the leader, and will spend more time sulking than talking, unless he or she is allowed to make most of the decisions in the home.

With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly, this could be a shaky union at best, but with the higher type of Aries and the positive type of Cancerian it can be made to work.

How do you see Aries? As a fiery passionate bombshell who bursts into your life and expects you to forget about yesterday, and not think about tomorrow. Madness or Moon magic?

How does your Aries partner see you? As someone to bring domestic bliss into their lives - but fears your melancholy moods.

How to make things better: Enjoy the passion, seduce Aries with your cooking, and don't ever be too possessive with this impatient Fire sign!

>so far i do not know anyone arian..

TAURUS - Love Makes It Work

Cancer wants to understand every nuance of Taurus' personality, and will make Taurus feel like the most important thing in his/her life...and expects to receive the same back! Both of these people are very strong in the domestic impulses category, and they will put much time and effort into their home and children.

Taurus will never have to worry about being taken for granted by the quiet, moody Cancer; being a dreamer he will place Taurus on a pedestal and always expect him/her to be perfect, but when the flaws show through he will retire into his shell, feeling let down. Taurus, not being the most tactful person around, will clumsily try to coax Cancer out and wind up driving him even further into his/her shell.

Cancer needs and demands (in the pouting way) a lot of sympathy, and Taurus has the nurturing instincts for giving that will help them to get along better than one would expect. At times, Cancer's nerve will fail him/her, but with lots of support and backing from Taurus, Cancer should be able to face life and even be successful in whatever endeavors he/she should try.

This relationship can and will improve with age and hard work, as these are such different personalities, and in many ways one's strength supports the other's weakness. Cancer's sex life is affected by the way they are getting along in the evening, and if there is arguing or other unpleasantness, Cancer will not make love to Taurus... and too much of this could build a wall between them. If the two are willing to give rather than get, this relationship can be a very good one.

How do you see Taurus? As someone who will understand your yearnign for security, and who is wonderfully sensual too. YOu picture this relationship growing stronger every day.

How does your Taurus partner see you? As the warm and loving partner they've dreamed of all their life, and is delighted to discover someone equally practical and dependable.

How to make things better: Vow that neither of you will be quite so stubborn if arguments rise. And watch out that this domesticated heaven never turns into some boring routine.

>can work out, omg let's see.. :)) thought of him.. _ r _ _.. haha

uhmmmm.. as usual wala na naman akong magawa.. we only have 3 weeks vacation. then enrollment
then 7 weeks summer class. i guess. hay naku anu na nmn kayang magyayari sa summer class ko?
first time.. hehe.. pero wala naman akong bagsak nuh.. allied tlga na we have that class.
uhmmm.. sana maging oks naman yun dba?? i mean not as hagard and pressure as in 2nd sem.
sbrang napagod kasi tlga ako nung 2nd sem. sbrang daming problems.. pero buti naman na over
come ko naman cla.. thank God.. but hello more to go.. uhmmmm, since i trust everything to
him naman.. better that i will do my part.. and if i failed.. maybe there's another plan for
me.. pero if i'll do better naman siguro and surely i'll not fail.. so ayun.. hehehehe..
hope that everything will turned out good.. well anyways sana din i didn't failed.. hala tlga
no.. hehehe. ndi ako makakapag summer class if ever.. at hindi din ako makakapag cupping..
c'mon.. haaayyysss... pero i believed naman na i did my best.. well nto much.. pero sana
tlga i passed..

well anyways good luck nalng sa batch namin.. and i really hope na maging ok ang lahat lahat
pero nakakapagod na din kasi.. hahhaah.. pero i'll not give up.. kaya to.. :))

 

uhmmmmmmmm...???? hehehehe late post.. well usually kasi i create my blog in notepad first
before i post it.. hehe.. la lng.. sharing.. :))

 

 

just want to share this picture.. :))

joy told me that i looked so calm and sirene in this pic..

love it.. :))

Life Lesson # 1

.."Life can be unfair" - yes, i just wrote that "it can be", but no all the time. People thought that life itself is unfair. But my english professor refuse it, because not all the time life is unfair. There is something that make it unfair, but if people makes things right eventually life is fair.

 

 

yeah right!!!

 

Life Lesson # 2.. - Trust your instinct. In Woman it's instuition. We women always have an instict, and most of the time it's true. Kasi minsan or should I say kadalasan ganun tau. :) ndi lang naten minsan ginagamit. "KASI BAKA MALI NAMAN.." and now that I knew that we should always trust out instict. yeah yeah.. gawin gawin na. :) hehehe. yeaba.

Yes.. Learn to trust yourself.. :)

Life Lesson # 3.. Don't follow the majority. Because majority is not always right, and most of the time pa nga it's so wrong. kaya if you have the priciple in your life, never trust other people's word. Have your own principle in life. It will surely lead you to where you want to be. Minsan kapag yung mga friends naten or other people yun yung gusto.. "WE JUST GO WITH THE FLOW.." soo mali pala yun.. kasi parang pinaubaya na din natin yung principyo naten sa ibang tao.

 

Life Lesson # 4.. When in doubts, trust your instinct and have faith in God. This is similar to life lesson # 2. With some guys it's somewhat na having guts. parang guts feeling ganun. :)) hehe. don't know exactly ehh. ehh more like na parang ganun na nga. hahaha. well well. WE SHOULD REALLY HAVE FAITH IN GOD>> pray hard..

 

and lastly....

Life Lesson # 5... LEARN THE ART OF LETTING GO..

sapol..

No matter how hard moving on is, we must LET GO. Although it would not be as easy as it could be. Like hello kelan naman naging madali ang mag-let go sa isang taong naging big part na ng buhay mo. hay hay hay..

 

LET GO OF THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU SAD

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